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Brothers
I need advice.I have two brothers.I am the oldest.But they copy everything I do.EVERYTHING.They started watching anime which i was happy but they copy the way I talk the way I walk and the way speak.I know as the oldest i am their role model but I am freaking annoyed by it that I can't handle it.They are talking back at me and think they are older than me.I am 16.My brothers are 13 and 10.And they think they are big and call me dumbass and other word.Not respectful.And my parents don't give a shit.I need advice on how should i handle this.And pls feel free to share your experiences as well.
Yep I know not the best place to talk about this topic
Lmfao I used to have a similar problem with my younger sister where she’d copy everything I do. It was to the point she’s never answer anything, she’d wait until I did and copy me even if she hated my answer. It grated on my nerves so much. And now my younger cousin does the same...
Tbh I feel like this is a universal older sibling experience lol
Honestly you have to learn to let the copying go, they’ll eventually grow out of it. Also if they’re doing it to be annoying show you’re not annoyed and they might stop faster.
Otherwise they might just be trying to get closer to you? Idk. There’s not much you can do if they’re not willing to listen (which sucks ik).
Thank you for the advice.I don't know if they will grow out of it.And I did tell them how I feel but they don't give a damn.
As they mature I’m sure they’ll grow out of it. But it’s probably because they look and up to you and seek ur guidance.
Tbh I recently started asking my sister about this because I lowkey make fun of her with it. It’s probably because they look up to you and want to be like you/spend time with you. I guess it can be a bit embarrassing for younger siblings
Anyways good luck bro (*￣▽￣)b
beat them the fuck up (joke)
Honestly speaking, assert dominance. Just show them that you are the biggest of Chad's.
My older sister was really angry at me because I ate the last piece of bread so she decided to THREATEN me with a KNIFE so I grabbed her wrist and told her to not do that and after I let go of her wrist she did it again and that's when I threw her into the ground.
based alpha sigma male showing dominance over beta sister over a piece of bread
(serious answer)
just chill
it will be unbelievably hard to squeze respect out of kids (im a kid so i can say that with certainty :D)
just try to be friends with them and just generally be more playfull
im no life expert but nothing will come of being rash about things
so just play the long game
i have 5 brothers so ik what your going through. My mom always told me that when some copies you, its cause they admire you or want to be like you. I learnt that isn't always the case. So id say just wait for the to grow out of it, or stop doing stuff that you don't like them doing to you so then they wont do it anymore.
If you act annoyed when they do something to you, then they'll continue to do it, so leave no reaction. Act like nothing happened, eventually they'll get tired of it and stop (hopefully)