Jesus Christ. Seriously. Jesus Christ, I cannot believe what I am reading.
First of all, how dare you use self harm as a card on other members and post screencaps. What are you looking to do? Go immediately and talk with that person then. Why the fuck are you screencapping and using this in a general thread? You do realize that you can actually trigger people and put them in their own spiral by posting this publicly to guilt people?
Second of all, Josh, get off your fucking behind and delete these posts. If Mex and Electrochemist posting legitimate concerns and people posting their personal trauma is to be deleted and you took it upon yourself to delete the thread to pretend none of the concerns happened, delete this entire thread right now. You cannot imagine the damage this entire thread is causing and I am so fucking angry that people even think they can dare use self harm as a bargaining card that I'm mortified to even post here again.
Seriously, shame on everyone who took it upon themselves to post this fucking garbage and use self harm so casually in conversation. What the fuck does this thread accomplish other than guilting people who just wanted literally a few words out of a billion words not being used? Fuck your entitlement over throwing a hissy fit over words that serve to marginalize them and make their lives harder, fuck your 'rational' debate when casually using self harm as a bargaining chip because people told you not to use transphobic words, and fuck off if you think this is grounds for guilting people with self harm. Jesus Christ.
On one hand, you will spoil events from Fate/Zero if you watch Fate/stay night first, but watching Fate/Zero first will spoil some reveals from Fate/stay night.
The order I went was:
Fate/Zero
Fate/stay night: Unlimited Blade Works (ufotable adaptation)
Fate/stay night (visual novel to play Fate and Heaven's Feel))